Why Hypnosis Is Better For Stress Than Meditating

Stress Is The Life Killer

Stress is the greatest problem for people in the modern world, and it's much worse than just health problems such as heart attacks that are brought on by too much stress for way too long.

Stress impacts EVERYTHING.

Stress kills our libido, our enjoyment of life; stress causes disturbed emotions

Stress Is The Life Killer

Stress is the greatest problem for people in the modern world, and it's much worse than just health problems such as heart attacks that are brought on by too much stress for way too long.

Stress impacts EVERYTHING.

Stress kills our libido, our enjoyment of life; stress causes disturbed emotions of anger, rage, sadness and depression; stress makes us clumsy; stress causes us to make mistakes and worst of all, stress makes us think stupid thoughts (we become "stress stupid") and it cuts off the internal flow to our creative and innate talents and abilities.

It is clear that we ALL need to de-stress, whether we are teenagers who suffer from acne and migraines as a result of stress, men and women in "anger management",

authors who suffer from writer's block, business people who burst a blood vessel, or parents at home who aren't enjoying their kids but end up screaming at them instead.

So how do we de-stress, and urgently, and FAST?

***** Why Stress & Meditation Are At Odds

Many hold that meditating and meditation is the answer to stress.

Meditating and meditation is the act of entering into altered states of consciousness, to widen our conscious awareness and to re-connect with the super consciousness of our energy mind (subconscious mind, subconsciousness).

This does not happen when we are stressed - a person under stress is like a TV that isn't tuning properly. Everything is disturbed, mad, doesn't fit together, there is no clarity.

Trying to meditate when you are stressed is like trying to be romantic with a pick axe embedded in your forehead - try as you might, it's not going to work very well if ever at all.

So we have the classic Catch 22 and another big stressor to add to all of that stress - a stressed person is TOLD to relax and go away and meditate, but they can't meditate because they're way too stressed!

Why Hypnosis Is The Best For Stress

Long before a person who is under a lot of stress can even BEGIN to enjoy harp music to relax them even further, they need to be made to slow down into other states of being, and for that you need HELP.

"A good talking to" by a sympathetic other is the most NATURAL way of getting rid of stress invented by human kind, and it even exceeds physical touch approaches in high stress situations; it precedes them too. We "talk" a potential suicide victim DOWN from the top of a building, not massage them off; we "talk" an angry man with a gun down into lowering it, we don't pat him on the back.

That is exactly where hypnosis comes in to help with stress.

Hypnosis is DESIGNED to assist people to ENTER INTO AN ALTERED STATE of meditation - that is the first purpose of hypnosis, and its speciality.

Often people get confused by the "instructions" or the content of hypnosis - the post hypnotic suggestions for change that take all the attention, but it is the fact that hypnosis brings people into the restful meditative state where they even become RECEPTIVE to suggestions, ideas, visions and new thoughts is where the power of hypnosis to heal the mind actually lies.

From Hypnosis To Meditation - Breaking The Stress Loop

"Going into trance" is something that we learn and we are taught when a hypnotist talks to us, and talks us down from the stress of the thoughts that fly here, there and everywhere, into a relaxed state of clarity, and peace, where your body is at ease and mind healing can finally begin.

THE MORE HYPNOSIS YOU DO, THE BETTER YOU GET AT RELAXING.

It is a learned skill that gets ever better with practice.

So my recommendation to combat stress, and to learn how to relax and EVENTUALLY to be able to meditate successfully, which then leads to being able to control one's own stress levels in the real world and to be able to relax and de-stress even in the middle of a stressful situation, is to DO HYPNOSIS - and LOTS OF IT.

Rather than to hopelessly try and "find inner peace" so necessary for mind healing without guidance, do hypnosis inductions. This is as easy as sitting down in a chair, putting on the headphones and letting the hypnotist do their job.

Hypnosis CDs, mp3s and tapes are readily and freely available; there are MANY free downloads and trial downloads available.

Try many, and if you find a hypnotist that YOU GET ON WITH, someone you find relaxing to listen to and who can make you feel safe, relaxed and you can feel your stress begin to drain away as they speak with you, you have struck "Anti-Stress Gold".

Now you have a tool to help you break out of the stress loop.

Use this hypnotist to de-stress you regularly and as often as you possibly can.

You will find after a few repetitions that you LEARN TO LEARN TO RELAX and HOW YOU DO THAT.

Now, you are ready to start meditating on your own.

Anti-Stress Meditation In The Moment

When you are out and about in your daily environment and you notice your stress levels rising, remember your hypnotist and what they said, just for a moment. Find out if you can feel your stress beginning to flow away. Even if your stress abates just a little bit, you can know that you are now on your way - you have started to learn to control your states of being, your states of mind.

This is the beginning of a new stress free life.

Life will ALWAYS be stressful.

We need to learn to be able to notice when we're stressed, and to step

back from that into the clarity of altered states.

That is what hypnosis teaches you, teaches you easily, and just for the listening, no willpower required at all.

When you have learned the basics of relaxation, THEN and only THEN are you ready to begin to meditate on your own, or to use meditation devices that require these basic skills of knowing how to shift state in the first place.

Hypnosis, Stress & Meditation - In Conclusion

Using hypnosis for stress relief doesn't mean that you should only look at hypnosis programs designed for stress alone. Remember that what you want to learn is the skill of altering your states of being, so that you can also then meditate and get all the health benefits from that; but more importantly even still, so that you can de-stress yourself in REAL LIFE.

You can choose ANY good hypnotist, and ANY good hypnosis program that excites you, in a double benefit, because it is not the CONTENT, but the hypnosis skills themselves you need to learn to put an end to being in stress states all the time.

You can choose intelligence enhancing hypnosis programs; mind healing programs; performance programs, health programs - the CONTENT is irrelevant and just the icing on the cake.

Hypnosis is a WONDERFUL and incredibly USEFUL tool for dealing with the human mind, for healing the mind, and for getting our thoughts and

conscious mind under control.

Explore. Find a GOOD hypnotist who can teach you the life saving skill of going into trance, and you get control not just of your stress, but of your entire WORLD.

Please contact my staff or myself if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION. 

Face To Face in person sessions are by appointment only.

Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta.

Or online by skype or Zoom

Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions.
For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here

To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact us on 00356 99355901

Why See a Hypnotist?

Kimberley Stapleton .. Master Hypnotherapist & Transformational Therapy Trainer

Why does change, at times, seem so difficult? Why can’t we just make up our minds to change patterns of behaviours, thoughts, and emotions and have it happen that quickly? The ‘Holy Grail’ of change work, whether it be self-help, or through utilizing a coach or therapist, is the instant ‘quick fix’ change can rectify years of habitual behaviour patterns in a few short moments. Oh, and while we’re at it let’s make those moments comfortable and relaxing.

Let us look for a moment at a possible reason why change doesn’t always occur that easily (in fact rarely) and why hypnosis might be a possible candidate for that Grail.

Your entire magnificent body/mind system sails through life performing an astronomical number of simultaneous tasks. Barring emergencies, your heart never stops beating, your lungs never stop operating, you metabolize the food you eat, and maintain a body temperature of 98.6 regardless of your environment. And, that is just a tip of the physiological iceberg of ongoing vital functions. Yet you only become aware of these processes if there is a problem. Otherwise they thankfully require no attention. These processes are part of your vast ‘unconscious’.

Included in this ever ongoing party of physiological processes beneath your awareness, or consciousness, are all of your brain’s functions, including language, proprioception (sense of your body and it’s position), emotional responses, etc., etc. There is, of course, no clear dividing line between physical and mental processes, and we are blissfully unaware of the overwhelmingly vast majority of them.

Now, specifically regarding behaviours. Most of our behaviours seem to be picked up unconsciously from our environment. Perhaps we are born with the tendency toward some behaviours, the jury is still out on that regard, but whether nature or nurture, the acquisition of behaviour is predominantly unconscious. How many times, as we mature, do we marvel at how much our behaviours (particularly speech patterns) resemble our parent’s patterns, often in spite of our best efforts. These are behaviours we unconsciously picked up from our environment as we developed.

What then, is our conscious mind, and what is it’s scope? What’s left?

Research has repeatedly shown that we can generally only be aware of, or conscious of, seven plus or minus two pieces of information at any one time. As glorious as our conscious mind is, it is so severely limited in the volume of information it can handle, that, in most cases, it is unable to have much of an effect on our overall behaviour. Our conscious mind can manage momentary adjustments of behaviour at best. In fact, I suggest that the main purpose of the conscious mind is to handle the necessary small bits of information we receive just until we can process them into our much more able ‘unconscious mind’.

In fact, think about how we learn new things. Take riding a bike, for example. At first, when we climb on that wobbly two wheeled device, we have more things to attend to than we could possibly consciously handle—balance, speed, avoiding oncoming obstacles, and so on. We end up falling down a lot. However, we keep at it, and one day, success! We can climb on the bike and ride, virtually without a conscious thought about balance, speed, avoiding obstacles, and all of those other innumerable matters connected with bike riding. We say we’ve learned to ride a bike. What we mean is, riding a bike is now an unconscious behaviour, and our conscious mind is free to think of other things while we ride.

Once we learn something, once it becomes accepted as an unconscious behaviour, it usually stays with us for life. That’s a wonderful thing for habits like bike riding and learning to read. It sometimes becomes a bit of a problem when we have learned behaviours like smoking or phobic responses. It seems as though, once a behaviour is learned, we unconsciously assign a value to it (we did, after all, work hard to learn to smoke for whatever reason we had at the time). To later try to change that learned habit challenges those initial reasons and values, and seems to violate the integrity of the unconscious. Trying to consciously change a habit, like smoking, is like trying to swim upstream against an overwhelming current. With smoking, in my experience, the habit is much more difficult to break than the chemical addiction.

Hypnosis to the rescue.

There is one method of interpersonal communication that does allow access to the normally unavailable unconscious processes, and that method is hypnosis. Hypnosis simply creates a doorway to the unconscious part of our mind. A qualified hypnotist can establish communication with the part of your unconscious mind that maintains the habitual behaviour you want to change. Sometimes through simple suggestion (new information) and sometimes through a more complex conversation with that unconscious part of your mind/body that controls the problematic habit, a hypnotist can literally change the course of that mighty unconscious river. Once that occurs, change results as easily as floating downstream on a sun-drenched inner tube.

Hypnosis is that “Holy Grail” of personal change.

Please contact my staff or myself if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION. 

Face To Face in person sessions are by appointment only.

Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta.

Or online by skype or Zoom

Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions.
For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here

To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact us on 00356 99355901

Cure That Hangover Now

Hypnosis is a powerful natural remedy with no side effects

If you're looking for a hangover cure, the last thing you need to hear is "if you drink less, you won't need a hangover remedy".

So we won't say it. ;-)

We've all done it. The thumping head, the nausea, the exhausted washed out feeling and a mouth dryer than the Sahara. The hangover symptoms from hell.

The classic hangover cure is 'hair of the dog', or simply drinking more, but of course this is just rubbing salt into the wound. The last thing your body needs is more of what made it ill in the first place.

Using hypnosis to relieve your hangover symptoms

The Hangover Cure download will take you rapidly into deep relaxation, where your mind and body can get to work repairing the damage done by alcohol.

For 20 minutes you will feel like your sore head is being caressed by angels, with a mountain stream splashing refreshingly through your mind.

When you wake up afterwards, you will feel rejuvenated and relaxed, your nausea will be gone and you will actually have some energy.

The way you feel right now, this could sound too good to be true, but we aren't kidding. Download the session below and in less than 5 minutes, your hangover will be on the retreat.

Download Hangover Cure below and start feeling better right away. You can listen on your computer or device or via our free app which you can access when you have completed your purchase.

Eat Your Stress Goodbye - Stress Reducing Diet

When you’re stressed out, the foods that you’re turning to are most likely going to be traditional ‘comfort’ foods – think big meals, take-out, fatty foods, sweet foods, and alcohol.

Let’s face it – we’ve all found some comfort in a tasty meal and a bottle of beer or glass of wine when we’ve been stressed out or upset about something. However, this isn’t a good permanent solution. When you’re turning to unhealthy foods you can feel better temporarily, but in the long run, you will feel worse. When your body isn’t getting the right nutrition, you can begin to feel less energetic, more lethargic, and in some cases less able to concentrate and focus. All of this can lead to even more stress.

Foods that Fight Stress If you’ve been feeling more stressed out than usual lately, it’s important to know which foods are best to choose and which to avoid when it comes to combating stress and helping you to deal with feelings of stress and anxiety. The best way to fight stress is to have a healthy, balanced diet which includes a moderate amount of each of the different food groups.

Filling up on foods such as whole grains, leafy vegetables, and lean proteins as the basic staples of the diet is the best way to ensure that your body gets the optimum amounts of nutrients to fight both physical and mental health problems. When it comes to choosing the foods to eat, some have a range of great properties which help the body to combat stress. Choosing these stress-busting foods will help to heal and calm your mind permanently, rather than providing a temporary x. Some of the best stress-fighting foods include:

Avocado – Avocados are a creamy and versatile fruit which can be eaten in a range of different ways whether you enjoy it raw, made into sauces, dressings and dips, or in a smoothie. These nutrient-dense fruits have the properties to stress-proof your body, thanks to their high glutathione content which espec ially blocks the intestinal absorption of certain fats which cause oxidative damage. Avocados also contain higher levels of vitamin E, folate, and beta-carotene than any other fruit, which boosts their stress-busting properties. However, be careful with portion control when eating avocado, as it is high in fat.

Blueberries – If you’re feeling stressed out and reaching for the snacks, swapping chocolate or chips for one of the best superfoods is a great way to help you deal with your stress levels and achieve a higher level of calm. Blueberries have some of the highest levels of antioxidants, especially anthocyanin, which means that this berry has been linked to a wide range of health benefits including sharper cognition, better focus, and a clearer mind – all of which can help you to better deal with stress.

Chamomile Tea – Of course, it’s not all about what you’re eating when it comes to managing stress; what you’re drinking can also alleviate or worsen the stress you're feeling. Drinking liquids which are high in sugars and caffeine, such as coffee, energy drinks or soda, can actually increase your stress levels if consumed regularly. Chamomile tea has long been used as a natural bedtime soother, and it has also been used in clinical trials, which determined that chamomile tea is effective in reducing the symptoms of generalized anxiety disorder.

Chocolate – Although it’s usually seen as an unhealthy treat, there is an undeniable link between chocolate and our mood. Studies have shown that eating chocolate can actually make you happier. However, that doesn’t mean that you can start munching on chocolate bars every time you're stressed out – chocolate works best as a de-stressor when eaten in moderation and as part of a healthy and balanced diet. Dark chocolate in particular is best for you, as it contains more avonols and polyphenols, two hugely important antioxidants which can help combat stress, more than many fruit juices.

Beef – Grass-fed beef is not only kinder to the planet and to animals, it’s also good for people, too. Grass-fed beef has a huge range of antioxidants, including beta-carotene and Vitamins C and E, which can help your body to fight stress and anxiety. If you’re looking for more reasons to spend a little more money on organic, grass-fed beef, it’s also lower in fat than grain-fed beef whilst being higher in omega-3.

Oatmeal – Oatmeal is great in that it can be a filling comfort food, but also has a large number of healthy properties to actually make you feel better from the inside out. A complex carbohydrate, eating oatmeal causes your brain to produce higher levels of the feel-good chemical serotonin, helping you to feel calmer and less stressed. Studies have shown that kids who choose oatmeal for breakfast tend to be much sharper throughout the morning in school compared to kids who had alternative morning meals.

Walnuts – If you’re looking for a healthy snacking option which will help you to stay better in control of your stress levels, walnuts are a great choice. There is no denying the sweet, pleasant flavor of walnuts and they can be a tasty snack for in-between meals or as part of a desert. A versatile nut, walnuts are great for salads, or add them to a sweet treat such as coffee and walnut cake.

Pistachios – another food which is great for snacking on and can also help to combat stress and anxiety in the long term is pistachios. Studies have found that simply eating two small, snack-size portions of pistachios per day can lower vascular constriction when you are stressed, putting less pressure on your heart by further dilating your arteries. Along with this, the rhythmic, repetitive act of shelling pistachios can actually be quite therapeutic!

Green Leafy Vegetables – leafy, green vegetables should be a pivotal part of anyone’s diet. Along with helping to combat stress, leafy greens are full of nutrients and antioxidants which help to fight off disease and leave your body feeling healthier and more energized. Dark leafy greens, for example spinach, are especially good for you since they are rich in folate, which helps your body to produce more mood-regulating neurotransmitters such as serotonin, which is a ‘feel-good’ chemical. Making leafy greens a part of your diet will help you to feel happier and less stressed out overall.

Fermented foods – last but not least, eating fermented foods such as yogurt can help to keep your gut healthy, which actually in turn will help to improve your mental health and reduce stress levels. The beneficial bacteria which are found in fermented foods such as yogurt actually have a direct effect on your brain chemistry and transmit positive mood and behavior regulating signals to your brain via the vagus nerve.

Putting Together Your Diet Plan Planning your meals wisely is key to not only staying physically fit and healthy, but also to staying mentally strong and being able to best manage your levels of stress. Knowing which foods to avoid and which are the best to reach for to snack on when you’re feeling worried and anxious is important to helping you get control over your emotions and fears. When you’re feeling stressed, you may be tempted to reach for classic ‘comfort foods’ – usually foods which are laden with sugar, very starchy, or greasy. However, although these foods can make you feel momentarily better, they will actually make you feel worse in the long run. Having stress-busting snacks such as fresh berries, dark chocolate, yogurt, walnuts or pistachios, or even a fruit smoothie with avocado and leafy greens in it can help you to feel better in both the short and long term when it comes to stress.

When it comes to combating and dealing with stress in the long run, it’s important to make sure that for the most part, you are eating a diet which is healthy and balanced. In order to stay on track, it’s a good idea to make a meal plan for your week and plan ahead to make sure that you have a good selection of these stress-busting foods in your kitchen to make meals and snacks from when you’re feeling like stress-eating. Making sure that the majority of your meals include foods such as lean proteins and leafy green vegetables will not only make you feel healthier overall, but can improve your mental health and stress levels, too.

A good example of a healthy, stress-busting menu would be:

Breakfast: Oatmeal with berries or a fruit smoothie with avocado and berries

Mid-morning snack: Natural yogurt with fruit or a handful of pistachio nuts

Lunch: A whole-grain pasta salad filled with plenty of leafy greens

Afternoon snack: Dark chocolate

Dinner: Grass-fed beef with vegetables

Before bed: Chamomile tea

Of course, you don’t need to stick to this menu – but it gives you a good idea! Remember to exercise good portion control when eating foods such as nuts, chocolate, yogurt or avocado! As the saying goes, you are what you eat – so make sure that first and foremost, you’re filling yourself up with foods which are good for your mental health.

Please contact my staff or myself if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION. 

Face To Face in person sessions are by appointment only.

Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta.

Or online by skype or Zoom

Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions.
For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here

To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact us on 00356 99355901

Natural Cholesterol Control Supplements

The body needs cholesterol for digesting dietary fats, making hormones, building cell walls, and other important processes.

The bloodstream carries cholesterol in particles called lipoproteins that are like blood-borne cargo trucks delivering cholesterol to various body tissues to be used, stored or excreted. But too much of this circulating cholesterol can injure arteries, especially the coronary ones that supply the heart. This leads to accumulation of cholesterol-laden "plaque" in vessel linings, a condition called atherosclerosis.

When blood ow to the heart is impeded, the heart muscle becomes starved for oxygen, causing chest pain (angina). If a blood clot completely obstructs a coronary artery affected by atherosclerosis, a heart attack (myocardial infarction) or death can occur.

Heart disease is the number one killer of both men and women in the United States. More than 90 million American adults, or about 50 percent, have elevated blood cholesterol levels, one of the key risk factors for heart disease, according to the National Heart, Lung, and Blood Institute's National Cholesterol Education Program.

Cholesterol lowering supplements containing Policosanol or Red Yeast Rice are known to assist in lowering cholesterol levels.

Policosanol



Policosanol is a natural supplement derived from sugar cane. It is a mixture of eight higher primary aliphatic alcohols isolated and puried from sugar cane wax.

One of the newest and more successful substances that benefits those suffering from high cholesterol is Policosanol, which is a safe and natural extract from sugar cane wax. It works by helping the liver control production and breakdown of cholesterol.

Policosanol promotes healthy platelet function and helps to maintain cholesterol levels that are already within the normal range.

Red Yeast Rice

Red Yeast Rice is the product of yeast ( Monascus purpureus ) grown on rice, and is served as a dietary staple in some Asian countries. It contains several compounds collectively known as Monacolins, substances known to inhibit cholesterol synthesis. Red Yeast Rice is proposed to be a mild aid for gastric problems (indigestion, diarrhea), blood circulation and spleen and stomach health

How to Relieve Stress and Tension in Mind and Body with Hypnosis

Stress relief hypnosis can radically improve your day – and your life - try it today

Are your nerves stretched to breaking point with stress and tension?

Do you feel as if the very next little thing that goes wrong is going to send you over the edge?

Sometimes life just gets too much for us. Whether it's a sudden deluge of major disasters, or the slow drip drip drip of steadily accumulating worries getting us down, there are times when you feel that you just can't cope any more.

Your brain feels fried, your shoulders hunch, your back aches, your guts are knotted, and woe betide the foolhardy person who innocently asks you to do something for them!

Too much strain on your brain makes it harder to solve problems

Of course, whether problems are big or small, ultimately you have to face up to them somehow and figure out a way to deal with them.

But what if you're not in any kind of a state to deal with them? If you can't think straight, how are you going to even begin to fix things?

Stress relief hypnosis can make a really big difference

As little as twenty minutes a day of deep relaxation, no matter what is going on in your life, will make you feel so much better that you won't know yourself. And it will completely transform your powers of resilience and problem solving.

And yes, if twenty minutes sounds like an impossible amount of time to take out of your day, that just shows why you need to!

Relieve Stress and Tension

 is a powerful audio hypnosis session that takes all the effort out of mastering relaxation techniques.

You just sit back and surrender yourself to carefully crafted hypnotic suggestions that will automatically trigger your natural relaxation response, relieve any anxiety and flood your mind and body with feel-good hormones.

As you relax and listen regularly to your session, you'll notice that you:

• experience a deep state of calm and rest

• feel invigorated and refreshed after each session

• can relax to a much deeper level than you have experienced before

• can separate yourself from the problems 'out there'

• begin to deal much more effectively with sources of stress

Download Relieve Stress and Tension now and give yourself the break you deserve. You can listen on your computer or device or via our free app which you can access when you have completed your purchase.

Download Relieve Stress and Tension  or book an in person session and treat yourself as you really deserve now and get those worries out of your life. You can listen on your computer or device or via our free app which you can access when you have completed your purchase.

Please contact my staff or myself if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION. 

Face To Face in person sessions are by appointment only.

Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta.

Or online by skype or Zoom

Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions.
For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here
To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact us on 00356 99355901

Couple / Relationship Therapy

Marriage Counselling & Relationship Therapy

Our intimate relationships provide us with a sense of balance, peace and emotional wellbeing. If these are compromised, it can have a negative impact on every part of our lives.

We offer several options to meet your individual needs.

Couples Therapy

Couples Retreat Intensive?

Discernment Counselling

Relationship Preparation Coaching

Pre Marital Counselling Therapy

Relationship Reboot Tune Up Weekend.

Not Sure..? Scroll Down To Find The Best Solution For You .

Relationship Therapy For Couples

If your difficulties are getting the better of you more often than not, and have been building for quite some time, your needs may best be met in a therapy/counselling setting.

If you're both committed to making this relationship work and building a secure bond together, then Relationship Therapy for couples is for you.

Weekly appointments are a great option for couples who live in Malta or Gozo.

However if you live further away, OR if your relationship is reeling from an urgent or overwhelming situation, then you may want to consider an Intensive.

Intensive Relationship Therapy For Couples

Twelve-plus hours of therapy over 2 days (plus two preparation and two follow up sessions).

Not for the faint-hearted, but it could just be the most important 16 hours of your relationship.

Learn More here …

Discernment Therapy

But not everyone is willing or ready to commit to building a secure connection with their partner.

There's a variety of really valid and understandable reasons for that, but if we try and put the cart before the horse and start before both of you are ready, then plain and simple, it just won't work.

If that sounds like you, our best bet is to undertake some discernment therapy to support you both in being able to get unstuck and make a decision one way or the other. This is a time-limited process that can be done in a short number of weekly sessions.

Relationship Coaching

for people who are not yet in a relationship. I will work with singles who have a history of troubled relationships, who have difficulty knowing what they want in a relationship or just want to stay on track with their plan to find a deeper connection with someone

Pre Marital Counselling Therapy

Are you planning a wedding?  If so, be sure to plan your marriage as well - great marriages don't just happen, you need to plan for them

Premarital Therapy is an important step in your journey to creating a healthy, fulfilling marriage. You will put a tremendous amount of time, money and love into planning a beautiful wedding day - your marriage is worthy of the same investment.

Premarital counseling helps partners improve their ability to communicate, set realistic expectations for marriage and develop conflict-resolution skills. In addition, premarital counseling can help couples establish a positive attitude about seeking help down the road.

By discussing differences and expectations before marriage, you and your partner can better understand and support each other during marriage. Learn More >>

Relationship Reboot Tune Up Weekend

But if you are interested in making a good relationship even better then come to a .

Still Not Sure?

Not everyone knows up front which one is best for them. Or what their partner wants most. We can chat on the phone about it if that's helpful, or we can set our first goal as identifying which path is right for you both. If you would like more information on how to get your relationship back on track or how to be ready to start a new relationship, please contact me.

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Boost Your Weight Loss Motivation

Use hypnosis to maintain your motivation until you reach your weight loss goal

Has your initial enthusiasm for your latest diet faded away?

Are you finding it harder and harder to keep to your weight loss plan?

It's always the same old story - motivation fades, and the only consolation is - it proves you're human. You're not Superman or Superwoman.

We always like to think that 'This time!' we're going to get it right. We find the perfect diet plan. We get rid of the naughty food. We pick the start day. And off we go, full of enthusiasm and high hopes.

And it's quite likely to go well at first. There's the buzz of the 'new start'. There's the great feeling when we see those first few pounds fall off the scale. We forget that we can't have a 'new start' every day.

We forget that there will be days when the scales will stay obstinately still - or even, heaven forbid, go up! When, at last, we remember this, we get discouraged. And it's so tempting to just give up. Until next time.

How do you get off this motivation merry-go-round?

Understand the psychology of weight loss motivation

The key to understanding motivation is that little thing of being human. If you keep in mind that you have the psychology of a human being and not a super being, and you work directly with that human psychology, there is a great deal you can do to help yourself achieve the healthy weight loss that you want.

Firstly, you need to appreciate the role that your unconscious plays in the decisions you make every day - including the decisions about what you will or won't eat. We're talking about the decisions that seem to 'make themselves', that happen without your directly 'thinking' about or 'choosing' them.

This sort of decision making comes out of hidden patterns in your mind, a sort of template of 'what to do in every circumstance' that you carry in your head. Everybody has such templates.

We build these templates as we go through life, not even noticing that we are doing so, and they guide our actions rather automatically. Fortunately, it is perfectly possible to update an old template which is no longer serving you well.

And the best way to do this is with hypnosis

Download Weight Loss Motivation now and give yourself the boost that lasts. You can listen on your computer or device or via our free app which you can access when you have completed your purchase.

Please contact my staff or myself if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION.

Face To Face in person sessions are by appointment only.

 Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta.

Or online by skype or Zoom

Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions.

For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here

To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact us on 00356 99355901

Coming Out of Depression

How hypnosis can lift the dark clouds and give you a break from the darkness

Why is it when you are depressed you simply can't see any way out?

Why do things always appear at their worst, even if you know things look better at other times?

The reason is that depression exhausts your brain, and so makes you interpret reality in black or white, extreme and negative ways.

Depression, or 'nervous exhaustion'

Depression is exhaustion brought about by an incredibly stressful or emotional time. Over-worrying and over-analyzing, inward-looking negative rumination all cause and maintain depression.

One way to get a quick break from this onslaught is to get deep relaxation. This can give your brain the rest it needs and partially restore your depleted resources. Regular relaxation can help lift depression as part of a wider depression treatment program.

How hypnosis can help with depression

'Coming Out of Depression' is a gentle, permissive hypnosis session designed to help you feel positive and strong about your future as depression starts to fade from your life. You can consider 'Coming Out of Depression' as a tool to aid your recovery.

As you listen, you'll first notice how deeply you relax (depressed people often relax faster and deeper than anyone else because their brain is so in need of it).

Then, you'll start to see things in more optimistic ways, perhaps just a glimmer at first, then more and more as you continue to use the session.

And as you continue to use the uplifting hypnosis session, the cumulative effect of repeated deep relaxation and positive suggestion will help you feel more energized and positive in a more general way.

Download 'Coming out of depression' below and start feeling better today. You can listen on your computer or device or via our free app which you can access when you have completed your purchase.

 Download 'Coming out of depression'  or book an in person session and treat yourself as you really deserve now and get those worries out of your life. You can listen on your computer or device or via our free app which you can access when you have completed your purchase.

Please contact my staff or myself if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION. 

Face To Face in person sessions are by appointment only.

Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta.

Or online by skype or Zoom

Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions.
For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here

To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact us on 00356 99355901

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How to Break Bad Habits with Hypnosis

Let gentle, permissive hypnosis replace those old habit patterns with healthier ones

Many people think it's difficult to break bad habits. Those sneaky negative behavior patterns that insinuate their way into our lives, seemingly behind our backs, are like those pesky 'mogwai' creatures in the movie Gremlins.

Remember them? Ever so cute to start with, but break the handling rules and they'll run amok in your life. And it feels like there's nothing you can do about it.

Why habits are like the 'gremlins'

Interestingly, one of the handling rules is that mogwai 'must not be fed after midnight' or they will multiply and transmogrify into the dreaded gremlins - destructive and vindictive creatures.

'Feeding after midnight' is a wonderful metaphor for the way we unconsciously let our bad habits develop. By the time we 'wake up' to them, they have become deeply embedded in our lives.

In the movie, the gremlins were eventually defeated by breaking another handling rule - 'no exposure to sunlight'. This is a good metaphor for 'making bad habits conscious'.

But though consciousness is a necessary first step - you can't get rid of them if you don't know you have them - it's not enough, in real life, to destroy them.

Why you need more than willpower to overcome negative habits

The difficulty you encounter when you first try to break bad habits is that habits (like the mogwai/gremlins) just don't respond to orders. You summon your willpower, you tell yourself firmly not to do it, and even feel sure you won't do it...and then you find that you've done it again, anyway.

It seems you just can't win a straight out battle with habits. And many people give up at that point and say "I just can't help it!"

But there is an easier way.

How hypnosis can help beat the habits you hate

Break Bad Habits is an audio hypnosis session which lets you get right to the root of automatic negative patterns - which is in your unconscious mind.

Although you need willpower to start dealing effectively with unwanted behaviors, you need a 'change of mind' to finish with them. In this session you'll learn exactly what conscious steps to take. And you will actually take the all important unconscious steps.

As you relax in profound trance, you will effortlessly absorb a new, powerful, hypnotically generated pattern making process and put it directly to use in your inner mind - where your instinctive behavior patterns are created and embedded.

You can use this process to deal with a single problem pattern or any number of unwanted behaviors, allowing yourself to become more of who you really want to be.

Download Break Bad Habits now and get those gremlins out of your life. You can listen on your computer or device or via our free app which you can access when you have completed your purchase.

 Download Break Bad Habits  or book an in person session and treat yourself as you really deserve now and get those worries out of your life. You can listen on your computer or device or via our free app which you can access when you have completed your purchase.

Please contact my staff or myself if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION. 

Face To Face in person sessions are by appointment only.

Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta.

Or online by skype or Zoom

Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions.
For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here

To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact us on 00356 99355901