Goal Setting To Live A Life Of Freedom

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Why Having Absolute Belief In Your Goal Is Necessary

When someone succeeds in life, people often ask, how did you do it? Its the same old question from everyone aspiring to achieve something to everyone who already did it. Some would tell you its luck or hard work but when you listen to them closely, you’ll hear their enthusiasm about their dreams. I can hear you whisper in your mind right now, so what?

These people believed in their dreams; they believed their dreams were not too much for them to reach or too weird to even propose to others. They believed in themselves and the goals they made and thats how they did it. Let me give you some reasons why having faith in your goal has a great impact in achieving it.

💕1. If you don’t, who else will?

You will have to start believing in your aspirations before anybody else will. Who would want to believe you if you yourself doubt your ideas? People will admire you and your pursuit when they see the sincerity in your confidence towards your dream. You’re responsible and obligated to believe in your goals before anyone else because that’s the only way you will find means to achieve them.

💕2. You are building your self-esteem.

There will be thousands of obstacles along the path when you decide to pursue your dream. Sometimes, these challenges will break you but you just have to keep going because its all part of the process. If you have enough confidence in your goals, you also have the same belief that you can surpass them all.

💕3. You mould yourself into positivity.

You, of all people, should know that a little bit of negativity will bring you and your goals down. If you really want to succeed in whatever you are aspiring to have or to become, you need to remain optimistic all the time. And that is not possible if you lack faith in your goals. You will have to keep the enthusiasm you had the first time the idea came into your mind to keep yourself surrounded with positivity.

💕4. You are ready to fail.

This is not intended to take your hope away from you. You will have to face the fact that failures are waiting along the way. They are there to make you stronger and to equip you to become the person you need to be when success is within your reach. If you don’t have enough faith in what you are pursuing, you will most likely get discouraged. But if you know the potential of your goals, you will not be fragile enough to break easily when discouragement comes.

Lastly, isn’t it nice to know how to answer the same old question, how did you do it? When that time comes, it will be your turn to inspire others.

💕5. How To Stick To Your Goal - The Most Difficult Step

💖Setting goals is the first step your living the dream. It is vital to achieving what you have always desired to have or desired to be. Although setting goals help paint a clearer picture of your future, it only keeps you motivated for so long. You may get bored after some time, and eventually completely lose your way around. If you want to be successful, that is something you should avoid. Here are a few tips so you won’t steer away from the goals you’ve always wanted to pursue.

💖Identify your goals. First, be clear about what you really want. Do not settle with others opinion about what you want to achieve. What matters here is what you want to do in life, and if it motivates you to become successful. By all means, stop listening to others who don’t really know what you desire, and start planning out your dream.

💖Break the goal into pieces. Some of your goals may look too big and impossible to accomplish and thats another reason why you might your eyes off your goals. When it already seems too impossible, analyse your goal piece by piece. See what you can do about it; sometimes, you just need to reset.

💖Get organised. This part is actually self-explanatory but often neglected. I assume you have already chosen the top priorities on your list of goals. If you ever feel lost in the whirl of your responsibilities, grab a free app where you can look back to your original purpose with your goal. Apps like Google Docs or Evernote are really helpful.

💖Get an accountability partner. You know who to talk to when all else fails. Yes, that person can be your accountability partner in setting and realising your goals. Telling someone about your goals will help remind you of what you need to do to get towards your dreams. That person will also remind you to work hard and motivate you to get back up when you feel discouraged.

💖Avoid toxic energy. Toxic energy can be found everywhere from people around you, your work, your environment, or even a Facebook post that stressed you out. You can always choose to ignore them. Remember the 90/10 principle by Stephen Covey. It states that 10% of life is made up of what happens to you, and 90% of life is decided by how you react. Whenever you perceive anything toxic coming your way, avoid them as soon as possible.

💖Holding on to your goal can be very challenging; however, that is the only way for you to see your dreams unfold in front of you, one after another.

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Please contact Kimberley if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION.  
 
Face To Face  sessions are by appointment only. Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta. Or online by skype or Zoom 

Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions. 
For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here 
 
To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact Kimberley by Whatsapp or Phone on 00356 99355901.

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Dealing With Anxiety in 2022

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Have you ever experienced restlessness, faster breathing or feel like you can’t stop worrying, or that bad things will happen if you stop worrying? If you did, you might be experiencing anxiety

But the question that many are facing is: How to cope with anxiety?

Dealing with anxiety can be challenging but there are many effective ways to cope with it.

In today’s world, we’re often so caught up with life that we pay very little attention to our mental and physical health.

Many people overlook anxiety symptoms, not knowing that anxiety is one of the hidden symptoms that can kill our mental wellbeing, our relationships and even our career!

This is why it is very important to learn how to manage, overcome and get rid of these negative feelings.

Don’t let it interfere with your life.

In today’s society, almost everyone is experiencing stress and anxiety at some point in their lives.

It could be stress from school, changing job, moving house, financial stress, marriage etc.

Anxiety disorders are developed from a complex set of risk factors such as personality, brain chemistry, life events and genetics.

Everyone wants to achieve success in personal and professional lives.

But truth is not everyone gets to live the life they desire.

Do you know why?

Anxiety is the answer.

Anxiety is the main obstacle that stops someone from reaching their full potential.

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Please contact Kimberley if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION.  
 
Face To Face  sessions are by appointment only. Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta. Or online by skype or Zoom 

Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions. 
For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here 
 
To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact Kimberley by Whatsapp or Phone on 00356 99355901.

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Dealing With Stress

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One Day to Combat Stress

Feeling as though life is getting on top of you? Don’t worry! That’s quite a normal way to feel and according to the statistics, actually a great proportion of us have these feelings a lot of the time.

However, the good news is that you can overcome this stress if you’re willing to just take a break. The problem that many people don’t realise, is that they’re often actually addicted to stress. They don’t like being stressed but at the same time, they can’t help it.

You know that you’re addicted to stress if you find yourself constantly staying late at work, constantly taking on more jobs and feeling awkward or bored when you try relaxing. Sound familiar? If only you would take a break and make it a real break, then you could probably overcome that stress.

Why?

Because you could use that one day to put your life in order and to close all your ‘open loops’.

Low Level Stress

While most of us have a few ‘big sources’ of stress, we should be able to cope with these if we could just focus on them. For instance, many of us are stressed by work or by our relationships – but this is still just ‘one source’ of stress and as such should not be crippling.

The problem is that we often have so many other additional sources of stress along with those big ones. For instance, many of us will have calls we need to make, people we need to e-mail and tidying to do. Often we have bills that need paying, admin that needs doing, clothes we need to buy for upcoming events…

The point is, most of us have a huge list of things we need to be doing and this is what makes it so hard for us to cope with the bigger things. This is what makes it feel like we’re filled to brim and like we just can’t manage with everything that’s going on.

These smaller things don’t get done either because we’re tired, because we’re stressed and because our spare time is taken up with those few ‘big’ things.

And this is where the ‘one day’ comes in. Take one day off of work, on your own, and dedicate it to getting everything else straight. That means tidying the house, it means catching up on correspondence, it means sorting out admin – it means doing all those small things that are causing you stress.

Do this, and suddenly life becomes much easier!

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Please contact Kimberley if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION.  
 
Face To Face  sessions are by appointment only. Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta. Or online by skype or Zoom 

Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions. 
For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here 
 
To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact Kimberley by Whatsapp or Phone on 00356 99355901.

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How Hypnotherapy can help you keep weight off

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Keep the Weight Off After Reaching Your Weight Loss Goal

How hypnotherapy can help you keep weight off after a successful weight loss plan

Are you fed up with yoyo dieting?

Don't you wish diet plans included effective and realistic techniques to stop the pounds creeping back on?

Anybody can lose weight on a diet, especially if combined with a good exercise program, and there is no denying that the good feeling you get as the excess pounds melt away and you arrive at your target weight is hard to beat. It really is an achievement, and you deserve to feel proud of yourself for your commitment and dedication.

And you deserve to go on enjoying being the right weight and shape for you.

Why is it so hard to keep weight off?

That's the tricky bit, isn't it? You've probably been here before. Reached the target, lots of satisfaction, feeling good in yourself and in your clothes, enjoying the compliments of others, and then somehow, you don't mean to, but it happens, the weight just starts to re-materialise.

You don't panic at first, thinking it will be easy to get rid of that little extra. But that little extra just keeps growing. It's very disheartening.

It's enough to put you off diets for good. It just doesn't seem possible to lose weight and keep it off - for good. Why isn't there a switch in your head you can flick that will keep you eating (and enjoying) only what's good and right for your ideal healthy weight?

The secret switch which will really help you keep weight off

Diet plans don't tell you this - but there is. In your own brain you have a mechanism for creating strong patterns of behaviour - habits.

Mostly this mechanism operates unconsciously - you are not really aware exactly how the things you do all the time without thinking became habits. But you can learn to use this mechanism deliberately and consciously to develop a habit that you want - like healthy eating. Here's how.

Using the power of hypnosis to reach right into your unconscious mind, where habits are formed, this powerful session will give you the two keys to successful weight maintenance and make sure you never lose them.

While you enjoy the profound relaxation and invigoration that come with deep trance, you will effortlessly absorb powerful life-enhancing suggestions that will become a deeply embedded part of you. As you listen regularly, you will find that you just naturally:

💖feel an irresistible drive to take really good care of yourself

💖focus on feeling alive and vital in every way

💖make healthier choices about food and exercise

💖feel really proud of your body and yourself

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Please contact Kimberley if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION.  
 
Face To Face  sessions are by appointment only. Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta. Or online by skype or Zoom 

Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions. 
For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here 
 
To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact Kimberley by Whatsapp or Phone on 00356 99355901.

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Dealing With Anxiety

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If you are suffering from anxiety, stress, endless worries, and depression… you need to stop whatever you are doing right now and read this page.
Discover the ultimate solution to wash away anxiety and all negative thoughts... so you can be fearless, live life on your own terms, and become the best version of yourself.

But first, have a look if you are experiencing any of these symptoms:

Excessive Worrying

Feeling Agitated

Restlessness

Fatigue

Difficulty Concentrating

Tense Muscles

Trouble Sleeping

Panic Attacks

Avoiding Social Situations

If you let anxiety and all the other symptoms mentioned above creep into your life... it will only snowball into bigger problems. More anxiety attacks, more stress, more things that you will fear and lose opportunities.

All these negative feelings will only set you back, stops you from reaching your goal, and keep your potential hidden inside you.

Anxiety is one of the hidden symptoms that can kill your career, your relationships and your mental wellbeing! This is why you need to learn how to manage, overcome, and get rid of these negative feelings. As a result of these experiences, you’re likely to feel sad and stressed.

These are perfectly normal emotions to go through from time to time. Everyone feels low and apprehensive about something or the other at some point in their lives. But when these unpleasant emotions begin to consume you, then you must act before it’s too late. Fortunately, these feelings can be healed. They can be made to shift to a more positive and constructive space. And I am are here to help.

PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME 

Please contact Kimberley if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION.  
 
Face To Face  sessions are by appointment only. Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta. Or online by skype or Zoom 

Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions. 
For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here 
 
To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact Kimberley by Whatsapp or Phone on 00356 99355901.

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Dealing with Grief

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How to Get Help Dealing with Grief

Move past negative thought patterns and find a healthy way to grieve with a gentle, permissive Hypnotherapy or Counselling session

Are you struggling to cope with the loss of someone important to you?

Do you wish you could find a healthy way to grieve?

Grief is a natural process we all experience when we lose someone important to us. But this doesn't make it any easier to deal with.

When you lose someone, it can be very hard for a while.

You may find that everything reminds you of them and, more painfully, that they are no longer around.

It can sometimes feel as though you'll never be able to deal with your grief and move on with your life.

Our brains deal with grief naturally

When grieving, people often find that strangers in the street look like the person they are grieving for.

This is a natural process, as your brain is gently weaning this person from your daily life. The person you are grieving for can always be there for you on one level, but you do need to continue to live, and find enjoyment in, your own life.

So when the process of grief continues for months without reducing in intensity, it may be time for a little help.

Begin to move on by organising your grief

A helpful way of dealing with grief is to organise the process so you can have more choice about when and how you grieve.

This stops sad thoughts and recollections from constantly interrupting your day to day life. It allows the grieving you do to be more concentrated and 'pure', but less pervasive and disturbing.

Because to truly remember someone is a great act of appreciation and respect, and to continue truly living your life can be an act of respectful remembrance.

PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME 

Please contact Kimberley if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION.  
 
Face To Face  sessions are by appointment only. Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta. Or online by skype or Zoom 

Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions. 
For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here 
 
To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact Kimberley by Whatsapp or Phone on 00356 99355901.

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Finding Your Confidence

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Boost Your Self Confidence

Confidence tips that work

It’s a myth that winners don’t require any motivational or confidence tips. They require good self-assurance tips frequently to keep up their motivational level. From the time you get your confidence tips make sure you apply them in order to transform the existing quality of life.

Confidence is necessary to achieve success in life. Some effective confidence tips must be followed if you genuinely want to gain accomplishment in your work. So how do you build your confidence that will work for you in any situation? Initially, make an effort to spend time with confident people.

Their vigor and strength is so stirring that you will surely feel yourself more powerful just by listening to their talk. To build confidence it is vital that you are in the midst of self-assuring people. This will help you derive great confidence from them. All you have to do is ask them for good confidence tips. Secondly, make sure that you find a mentor.

All successful people have mentors in life, those who can efficiently guide you, advise you and also offer some confidence tips. The person can help you considerably and you can taste success more quickly than you ever imagined. Two minds are always better than one. Try to understand that confidence is just a feeling.

Think about all the situations where you have felt confident. Such positive thoughts can make you confident in future. Sit down for a few minutes everyday and analyse the happenings during your day. Imagine all the things that make you feel certain. This can boost your morale and make you even more poise.

List all your reasons to be confident.

Try and list all the qualities that have helped you to be confident today. Include your victories, skills and also mention about your goals. After you have done this you will see how powerful your analysis can be. It will make you feel even more confident. The most important confidence tip can be preparation. Continuous preparation makes you perfect and you attain confidence.

Have you ever watched a sportsman playing effortlessly or stars performing live on stage? How do they give such a flawless performance? Preparation makes you more and more perfect. It is necessary that you keep honing your skills to achieve perfection and this automatically will augment your level of confidence.

Self-comparison is another key to enhance your confidence. Learn to compare your progress in life with respect to your previous results. Look at other successful people and learn not to measure just your success. When you put in more efforts on the daily improvement of your individual skills and capabilities you can grow very rapidly and your confidence will surge.

Confidence without capability is a perilous combination. It is necessary that you only engage in self-comparison when you are assessing your development. By doing this you will make it easier when the going gets rough and your proficiency will grow day-by-day.

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PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME 

Please contact Kimberley if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION.  
 
Face To Face  sessions are by appointment only. Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta. Or online by skype or Zoom 

Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions. 
For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here 
 
To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact Kimberley by Whatsapp or Phone on 00356 99355901.

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What is Counselling!

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At a time of crisis, when you are experiencing problems it is important to be able to contact someone who can listen and provide counselling immediately or at a time to suit. Counselling offers you a safe, secure, supported place to express how you really feel. This helps you unravel any confusion in your life, to feel clearer about who you are, and what life means to you. Together we can face the things that might be causing your anxiety, distress, or pain...and release any painful emotions that you may be experiencing. 

Then counselling can help you choose the way ahead for you...with any changes you would like to make.

Counselling is also a wonderful way of uncovering the riches inside you...finding your own answers from the wisdom within, together with the wonderful potential that is you... waiting to be discovered. Please see here for list of problems which we may be able to help with

PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME 

Please contact Kimberley if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION.  
 
Face To Face  sessions are by appointment only. Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta. Or online by skype or Zoom 

Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions. 
For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here 
 
To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact Kimberley by Whatsapp or Phone on 00356 99355901.

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Fears and Phobias Hypnotherapy Sessions

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Use hypnotherapy to update your unconscious mind to overcome old anxieties

It's good to know that you can easily overcome fears and phobias with hypnotherapy, because such anxieties are extremely common. More than 10% of people will experience a simple phobia at some time in their lives. From elevators, spiders and birds, to heights, dentists and open spaces, there is nothing we can't develop anxiety or phobias about.

But you're not doomed to be stuck with them forever.

Happily, hypnotherapy provides an extremely effective cure for these problems as it provides the opposite of anxiety - deep relaxation. At the same time, it teaches the mind a different way of responding to the feared object or situation. Hypnotherapy for phobias works by detaching the stimulus (trigger object) from the emotional response (fear) and 'updating' the brain with a new, more realistic response.

PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME 

Please contact Kimberley if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION.  
 
Face To Face  sessions are by appointment only. Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta. Or online by skype or Zoom 

Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions. 
For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here 
 
To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact Kimberley by Whatsapp or Phone on 00356 99355901.

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Myths About Therapeutic Hypnosis

As we promised in the last post, I’m going to continue the list of myths that revolve around hypnosis.

I hope that by the end of this post I will be able to answer all the questions you might have about therapeutic hypnosis. If this does not happen, I kindly remind you that you can always send me a message with any questions :) You Can Always Contact me here >>>

1. There are people who believe that hypnosis can be dangerous!

Far from being dangerous, hypnosis brings extraordinary benefits mentally, emotionally and physically.

Think about everything that happens to your body during a hypnosis session. Your body is so deeply relaxed that you almost don't feel it, you lose connection with it. Your mind is relieved of stress, of unnecessary negative thoughts, and instead pays attention only to the positive suggestions it receives.

In this state you face a calm and total sense of peace, feeling that everything around you is perfect. You are in total control of your destiny, you are happy, confident and fulfilled.

How bad could this condition be for your health?

💜It is worth noting that in 1955 the British Medical Association approved hypnosis as a valid medical treatment.
💜Three years later, in 1958, the American Medical Association approved hypnosis as a valid therapy.

2.Another common fear of people is that you may not be able to get out of the hypnotic trance.

You can't stay stuck in hypnosis any longer than you could stay awake when you dream with your eyes wide open.

Hypnosis is a state of mind that occurs so naturally that you go in and out several times over the normal course of a day, whether you are aware of it or not.

Hypnosis can be viewed from two perspectives: as a state and as a process. The process can generate the state but at the same time the state can appear spontaneously, without that process.

If we think of hypnosis as a process, a hypnosis session involves a series of steps designed to bypass the conscious mind in order to establish communication with the subconscious mind. You can't get stuck in a hypnotic state, with no way out or with consequences on your natural state.

There are cases in which the client enters the state of hypnotic trance so deeply that he may want to prolong the experience. If the hypnotist fails to get the client out of hypnosis, he will return to full self-awareness spontaneously within minutes.
After such an experience, when you open your eyes you will feel completely awake, rested and feeling good.

3.The connection between hypnosis and religion?
Hypnosis is not associated with any of the world's religions. An ethical, professional hypnotist always respects the client's faith and will not try to improperly influence his or her religious beliefs.

Finally, I want to emphasize that hypnosis therapy cannot cause physical or psychological problems. It is 100% natural, and no more dangerous to the brain than sleeping or daydreaming.

It's such a good state of mind that the known genius Albert Einstein used it every day. Therefore, those who claim it to be unsafe or dangerous are only uneducated in the field.
Thanks for reading, Kimberley